Bridesmaids have a very important role on a wedding day. You must therefore carefully think about who you would like to have as your bridesmaids. It's important they go well together and are (really) willing to listen to your wishes. But what do they do exactly? Here are the duties of your bridesmaids:
Selecting the wedding dress
The bridesmaids help the bride pick a wedding dress. They will give their honest opinion and will listen carefully to the bride to see what she wants. The bridesmaids often make a mood board or send tips and suggestions. A day of shopping with all the bridesmaids is on most brides calendar. Make sure to thank you friends afterwards with a nice dinner.
Catching the wedding bouquet
The bridesmaids have the honor of catching the bridal bouquet. According to ancient superstition the person to catch the bouquet is the next one to get married. To your bridesmaids the task to be the one to catch it.
Assisting the master of ceremonies
The bridesmaids are, next to a great help to you, also the assistant to the master of ceremonies (MC). They offer their help when the MC is otherwise occupied. The MC can also ask the women for advice before the wedding day, after all, the bridesmaids are very likely the people that know you best.
Open the doors
The bridesmaids will open the doors for you during the entire day. They will be your assistant so you don't have to worry about anything. They will remain close-by throughout the day, which is also handy when you for example need to visit the restrooms and need some assistance, particularly with that huge dress.
Managing the guestbook
The bridesmaids are responsible for your guestbook. They will make sure all guests have written something in the guestbook and no-one accidentally forgets. Should you prefer someone else to take this duty? Can can also appoint a guestbook holder. Shop here for the most beautiful guestbooks.
Helping the bride to get dressed
Helping the bride to get dressed is an entire happening. Often a wedding photographer is present and the entire moment is experienced as very special and emotional. Of course you want your bridesmaids to be present at this moment. They'll help you get into your dress and make sure everything looks absolutely fabulous.
Help with the bachelorette party
Together with the best woman your bridesmaids will take care of the bachelorette party. They know you well and know what you like. Often the bride is surprised and brought along by one of the women and you'll has no idea what's about to happen. Exciting but a lot of fun, just let it all happen and know you're in good hands. By the way: these are the things you should bring to your bachelorette party.
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